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Lily Hush's Sexual Bucket List

Lily Hush on 2nd Oct 2015

Sex is one big thing that many couples have in common with one another. However, sex is something that can also strain a relationship, especially if you find yourselves taking on the same routine time and time again in that particular department. If this is currently the case in your relationship, there is no need to worry. There are plenty of things that you can put on your proverbial "bucket list" to help spice up your sex life with your significant other. In fact, we recently conducted a survey with both males and females in regards to their most thought-about sexual fantasies. Taking information from the results of this survey, we've come up with the following top ten most common fantasies that you should consider making part of your sexual bucket list.

LEARN HOW TO STRIPTEASE

Engaging in a striptease with your partner can only help arouse them, it can also lead to a spontaneous session of sex. Even better is the fact that this activity is one that both women and men alike can participate in. A striptease is fairly simple: a woman (or man) sits their partner down and turns on some sensual music to help heighten the mood and the anticipation of what's to come. As their partner watches, they begin suggestively removing articles of clothing, all while not letting their partner see the most intimate areas of their body. The basic intention of a striptease is to undress to the music in such a way that your partner becomes sexually excited, which will undoubtedly lead to a great session of sexual activity. Some of the basic striptease methods used include the following:

*Turning away from your partner as you take off your top

*Kicking off your shoes rather than bending over to take them off, later putting them back on

*Maintain sexy facial expressions such as smiling, licking your lips, narrowing your eyes, etc.

PLAY A GAME WITH "STRIP" RULES

Poker. Monopoly. Any kind of game can be made even more interesting when "strip" rules are enforced, meaning that when one person comes out on the losing end, they have to remove a piece of clothing form their body. Consider taking on this kind of activity with your partner to help with spicing up your sex life.

TRY THE KITCHEN TABLE

As we all know, a house has many different rooms, which are used for many different purposes. One thing that they can also be used for is spontaneous sexual activity! So rather than just confining your escapades to the bedroom, consider spicing things up a bit by going to another room, such as the kitchen or the living room. You could even take things to the bathroom, especially the shower.

USE SWEET AND SENSUAL FOOD ITEMS

Consider utilizing different food items during your sexual activity; however, not for any kind of penetration. Not only is food something great to use during foreplay, but they also come with extra benefits that can help increase your overall sex drive, lead to high sperm count in your male partner, etc. This means that while you and your partner are having fun in the bedroom, you'll also be improving your sexual health at the same time! When using these products, place them on various areas of your partner's body and either eat or lick them off in a sexual manner. These kinds of items can include the following:

*Fruits (papayas, cherries, strawberries, avocados)

*Ice cubes (used for stimulating nerve endings in your body)

*Chocolate (including chocolate syrup, which contains components that act as an aphrodisiac)

BE DIRECT, TALK DIRTY

One of the most common aspects of any kind of relationship is communication. This is something that's important in regards to your sex life as well. There are some couples who feel like if they try to talk dirty, they may come off sounding somewhat idiotic and embarrassed; however, men and women have been known to be very visual creatures, so it's important to utilize your vivid imagination in the bedroom. Tell your partner exactly what you want to do to them and what you'd like for them to do to you. More importantly - and to help spice things up even more - be as graphic with them as possible. Not only will it show that you're completely in the mood, but it will help to arouse your partner beyond belief as well. For example, if there are certain sexual positions that you've always wanted to try with your partner but have been nervous about mentioning the idea, take a chance and bring up the subject. Another great example is when performing sexual acts on your partner, go into detail about how much you're enjoying it and tell each other how you're feeling at those moments (i.e. "my thighs are tingling," "your lips feel so soft and taste so good," "make me feel like your personal *expletive*," etc.). This will not only benefit you, but it will also benefit your partner as well, as well as raising both of your confidence levels.

TAKE ON A "VOYEUR" ROLE WITH YOUR PARTNER

One way to help spice up your sex life is to partake in watching another couple have sex, or even a single person pleasuring themselves. Now, this isn't to say that you should go around and peek into someone else's window and watch them that way - we all know that's illegal and grounds for you to be arrested. Instead, talk to another person or couple and see if that's something that they would be open to doing with the two of you. If so, consider chipping in for a hotel room for all of you to share. Reassure your friends that there will be absolutely no swapping or touching from either you or your significant other.

ENGAGE IN A THREESOME

A threesome is another activity that some couples often fantasize and talk about doing to help spice up their sex lives. However, it's important to keep in mind that while it's something that you may find to be fun and interesting, your partner may think otherwise. In cases like this, it's always important to respect their feelings and their decision. If your partner is open to the idea, however, make sure that you search for the third person together rather than separately. You may choose to look online (cautiously, of course) or talk to one of your single friends who you think may be interested in the idea of a threesome as well.

HAVE ROUGH SEX

When sex is involved in a relationship, some couples like to spice things up by making things a little rougher in the sack. If this is something that you are currently considering or have previously considered, here are a few ways that you and your partner can make things more rough:

*Ripping off your clothes

*Pulling hair

*Spanking

*Rough thrusting when engaging in anal or vaginal sex

One extremely important aspect of this suggestion is to ensure that you and your partner have a "safe word" established. This is a word that either partner can speak out if they think that things are getting a little too rough, which will lead to the action to stop immediately.

CONSIDER ROLEPLAYING

Another activity that some couples enjoy taking part in to help keep their sex lives spicy is roleplaying. There are many different kinds of roleplaying activities that you can use in your relationship, including the following:

*Teacher/student

*Boss/secretary

*Warden/prisoner

*Driver/hitchhiker

Regardless of the type of roleplaying activity that you and your partner choose, no doubt it will help to spice up your sex lives.

USE SEX TOYS ON EACH OTHER

Sex toys have long been seen as some of the most erotic objects to help spice up someone's sex life. Contrary to popular belief, both women and men enjoy the sensations of many different kinds of sex toys. If you are a woman, get your partner to use a sex toy of your choice on your vaginal area. If you're a man, consider asking your partner to use something such as a vibrator on your penis as an alternative way to help you masturbate. If you really want to spice things up even further, let your partner be the one to surprise you with which sex toy they use on you.

HAVE SEX OUTDOORS

Outdoor sex is another activity that some couples like to participate in; however, should you decide to try this, there are a few important things you should be aware of ahead of time:

*Warning: Do not attempt this in any public area - you WILL be arrested for public indecency!

*You should only participate in outdoor sex on your own private property.

*Make sure that no one else will be able to see you if you participate in outdoor sex on your own property

ENGAGE IN PHONE SEX

When we think of phone sex, we often first think of the late-night advertisements trying to convince people to call them "for a good time," while paying a certain amount of money per-minute at the same time. The best (and cheapest) way to engage in phone sex is to do it with your significant other. This also works well if one of you goes out of town for something such as a business trip and the both of you end up missing each other like crazy. Call your partner on the phone and let them know how much you miss them, then engage in all the sexy talk that you want to.

TRY BETTER ORAL SEX

One of the greatest sexual sensations that a man can feel is when they ejaculate into their partner's mouth; however, it's completely understandable that some individuals don't like letting something like that happen. If you are someone who has ever thought about this kind of thing, it truly is a way that can help spice up the sex lives of not only your partner, but yourself as well. In terms of yourself, you will be more aroused by seeing how pleased and aroused your male partner is when they are able to do this.

One fun thing that some women enjoy doing is sitting on their partner's face and letting them lick their vaginal area. One way to help strengthen up the sensations that can be felt during this is to slowly start grinding your partner's face before increasing in speed, all while your partner is using their tongue on the vagina. Keep the speed going until you finally climax.

GIVE EACH OTHER AN EROTIC MASSAGE

You may have heard time and time again that massages can oftentimes be erotic and can help strengthen a couple's sex life. This is absolutely true. The basic setting can include various scented candles and oils, as well as light music if you wish. Get your partner to lay down and use either your favorite kind of massage oil or, even better, your partner's favorite to give them a massage. Since this is an erotic-type massage, you will be able to rub much more than just their back.

RECORD A SEX TAPE

Perhaps one of the most interesting things that a couple can do to help keep their sex life more interesting is to record a video of themselves having sex. When it is recorded, you will be able to watch it over and over again, possibly even coming up with more new and exciting ideas to help spice things up in the bedroom. Sort of a form of thinking of things that you can do to help improve what was recorded onto the tape. If you really want to get creative, consider making your own porno movie, complete with a story that the two of you make up. Regardless of what you choose to do, however, make sure that the tape itself is kept in a spot that only the two of you are aware of.

GET YOUR FEMALE PARTNER OFF IN A MOVIE THEATER

Oftentimes, couples will fantasize about sitting in the back row of a movie theater so that they can make out without getting caught. If you're careful, however, there are other things that you can do when seated in the back row. If you're a female, wear a skirt on your movie date with your partner. When the two of you sit in the back row, let your partner slip his hand up your skirt and finally in your panties. Next, let your partner slowly finger you until you climax. If you decide to try this suggestion, be sure to bring a clean and fresh pair of panties with you to change into in the bathroom stall afterward.

HAVE SEX WHILE WEARING LINGERIE

You don't always have to have sex naked. In fact, sometimes it can get boring after a while. One way to help keep things spicy between you and your partner is to wear a sexy piece of lingerie while having sex, especially during intercourse, provided that the lingerie the woman is wearing comes complete with crotchless panties to allow the man to obtain "easy access," so to speak. A vast majority of men have always gotten sexually excited seeing a hot woman dressed in a nice bit of lingerie. Perhaps the biggest reason is that they feel like their woman buys it solely to excite them, which can make a man feel like he's just won the lottery. A man also enjoys lingerie on a woman because, oftentimes, they see it as a proverbial "private showing" that only they are invited to.

These are just a few of the many, many different things that you can add to your sexual bucket list. In the end, the main goal is the same: to provide ways to help improve the sex life of both yourself and your partner. After all, a better sex life always equals better sex itself. Taking advantage of these top ten most common fantasies will undoubtedly make you and your partner become animals in the bedroom for years to come.