For couples who are married or have been together for what seems like forever, your sex life can become routine and boring before you even realize it. If you are struggling with ideas on how to spice up your sex life, sexy lingerie may be the answer. Even if sex is not all that boring yet, you can use sexy underwear and lingerie to keep that from happening. Before you start saying to yourself “I do not know if I can wear sexy lingerie”, keep in mind that there is a huge selection to choose from. So, keep an open mind and consider some of the options discussed below. They just may revamp your sex life and save your marriage.

Start With What Makes You Comfortable

Do not assume you have to start with the wildest lingerie available. Stick you what you know, love, and will feel comfortable in. You want to feel confident when wearing lingerie, so that you enhance your sex life. For example:

Babydolls: Baby dolls are perfect for any woman because they fit any body shape. Not only do they accent your breasts, but the flowing top also camouflages your waist and hips. You can opt for a satin or lace material for an elegant and classic look, or sheer material, if you want to show off everything. Both seductive and flirty, baby dolls are available in a huge variety of colors, so do not be afraid to go with a bright color that you might not normally wear. After all, you are trying to spice up your sex life, so now is not the time to be shy.

Camisole and matching panties / shorts: Women have been wearing camisoles in the bedroom for decades to spice up their sex life. Although camisoles are becoming more main stream, there is no reason for this trend to end any time soon. Choose a camisole in satin, silk, or any other material that soft on your skin and to the touch. If you are feeling bold and really want to turn your partner’s head, opt for sheer mesh or lace camisoles. Don’t be afraid to go ultra feminine and choose a set that has ruffles or embroidery around the waistline, neck, and the legs and top of the shorts/ panties.

Chemise: A chemise is a somewhat loose fitting piece of lingerie that hangs straight from the shoulders. Essentially, it is a mini slip that hits somewhere around the top of the thigh. Chemises are available in a wide selection of colors and patterns, though you can’t go wrong with a classic cream, black, or white. Flattering to all body types, you can usually find a chemise in silk, satin, or cotton, though mesh, lace, and crushed velvet are becoming increasingly popular. Some of the sexiest chemises to choose from include sequins or some type of embroidery for extra pizzazz.

Teddy: Often compared to a swimsuit, teddies also somewhat resemble a camisole. While most of the teddies you typically see in lingerie stores are lacy, sheer, or silk, you can also find them with beading, embroidery, or lace trim. Many have cutouts in the front, back, or along the side to allow you to show a little more skin. Typically they are designed to slip off the shoulders, so you may need to adjust the straps slightly for the best fit.

Corsets: Corsets have been a bedroom favorite for decades because they enhance your assets, pull in your waist, and can improve almost any woman’s body shape. If you have small breasts, look for a balconette style corset or one with a padded bra to give what you are blessed with a lift and a boost for more cleavage, while women with large breasts should stick to plunge styles and full cups that really emphasize your cleavage. In the past, corsets were typically made of high quality silk, satin, and lace, but today you can also find a good selection of corsets in sheer, fishnet, and leather.

To play up your corset, attach the adjustable garter straps (In most cases, they are included with the purchase, though this is not always the case.) to the hem of the bustier and wear it with fishnet stockings. To go even further, throw on a great pair of heels, even if you can barely walk in them. It is not like you are going to be walking around that much in them and they elongate your legs.

Bras: There is no shortage of styles and colors of bras, which makes them perfect for use in the bedroom. From bras made of lace to those with satin straps and bows, there are tons of gorgeous bras to choose from. Simply pair with a matching set of panties and you are ready to go. This is perfect on nights when you don’t have a lot of time to get ready for a romantic evening. In fact, you can get things started before you even get home simply by giving your partner a quick glance at what is beneath your clothes. Quarter cup bras are particularly seductive. They support the bottom of your breasts to ensure everything looks perky, but let the rest of your breast spill out, leaving your nipples exposed.

Monokini: Although the term “monokini” isn’t all that sexy, it is surprisingly hot when you wear it. A one piece item, the bottom is similar to a bikini bottom or thong and uses a thin piece of fabric to reach your breasts. The breasts may be covered or left bare. A surprising number of bondage costumes feature monokinis and it is not unusual to see them with a collar that attaches around the neck. Available in a variety of materials and styles, they are often embellished with rhinestones.

G-strings/ thongs: Although women have been using g-strings and thongs to avoid VPL for years, they often don’t know the difference between the two. A g-string has a triangle attached in front to another triangle or other strings that bring both sides together in the back with a thin piece of fabric. A thong is similar, but it usually has a thicker crotch and band. Regardless of which you prefer, they can be used in the bedroom to spice things up. Available in a variety of materials, including silk, satin, lace, and mesh, they are frequently adorned with crystals or diamonds. Paired with a great (matching) bra, as well as fishnet stockings and heels, you can’t go wrong.

Bodystocking: You may not be as familiar with a bodystocking, but they are no less sexy than the lingerie discussed above. Essentially, it is a lacy, see-through material that covers the entire body. However, this explanation does not do the bodystocking justice. Yes, it covers up your entire body, but do not forget that they are primarily see-through and many are crotchless or expose the nipples.

Do Not Forget The Extras

Sure, wearing the lingerie discussed above is certain to jumpstart your night, but to give your night an even bigger kick, do not forget some of the items below.

Fishnet stockings: When most men hear “fishnet stockings”, hot and sexy are two of the first things that come to their mind, so why would not you wear them in the bedroom? They are available in plenty of colors and styles, as well as embellished with rhinestones and more, though you can even opt for basic black and still get a nice reaction. You can even find crotchless varieties. Pair them with a corset, chemise, or teddy, as well as a fab pair of super high heels and you can definitely expect an exciting night you will not soon forget. In fact, fishnet stockings have a starring role in many of the role playing costumes discussed below.

Crotchless panties: Available in a variety of materials, including satin, silk, and even faux leather, crotchless panties are perfect when there is no time to waste. There is absolutely no limit to the colors and patterns to choose from. Just be sure you pair them with matching pasties or a super sexy bra.

Pantyhose: Many men are turned on simply by watching a woman lying on the bed slowly peeling off a tight pair of shiny pantyhose. For that matter, there are men who are turned on the thought of pantyhose in general. If this describes your partner, opt for a crotchless pair that he will love.

Garter belt: For some reason, garter belts typically play a big role in men’s sexual fantasies, so this is definitely something you want to invest in. Simply putting on a garter belt, fishnet stockings, and high heels are certain to put your partner in the mood.

Super high heels: Just like you read above, these are not heels that are meant to be walked around in. They are simply to give your sexy lingerie an extra oomph. Don’t be afraid to try a pair out with heels that are 4 or more inches high. For the best look, you can’t go wrong with satin or leather.

Move Outside Of Your Comfort Zone Into Role Playing

Once you have realized that your partner is going to love any sexy lingerie that you wear in the bedroom, it is time to take things a step further. Role playing is one of the easiest ways to keep your sex life exciting. You may be shocked to know just how many options there are for uniforms, costumes and role playing lingerie. Here are a few examples:

Schoolgirl: This is probably one of the oldest role playing fantasies, but that just means there are numerous costume options to choose from. Pair a pair of fishnets with a plaid micro mini skirt and corset. You can choose to go commando underneath or opt for a cute pair of crotchless panties.

Maid: Another classic, there are a number of French maid costumes to select from. Opt for a chemise with a lacy trim and a sheer apron attached at the waist. It is really that simple to get your partner all hot and bothered with a sultry maid costume.

Nurse: Playing doctor and nurse has never been easier thanks to the huge selection of sexy nurse costumes that are perfect for the bedroom. One great option is to choose a teddy with a thong bottom and put on some fishnets.

Policewoman: “Arrest” your partner while wearing a naughty, police themed teddy (Why not try leather?). Don’t forget the matching police cap and of course, the handcuffs are an absolute must.

Secretary: Throw your hair up in a "serious" bun, put on a pair of dark rimmed glasses, and pull everything together with a seductive secretary costume. There are plenty to choose from.

Nun: With a wide selection of nun’s costumes to choose from, it is easy to lead even the most pious man astray. Costumes include everything from transparent veils to teddies and corsets. Of course, the nun’s habit is a must and it is usually included.

Consider your partner’s interest and look for a lingerie costume that perfectly fits. You can find everything for hot superhero, airline stewardess, and cheerleader costumes to seductive geishas and even Minnie Mouse sexy lingerie in Singapore.

Lingerie: It's Not Just For Women

It’s a common misconception that men can’t wear lingerie. (Guys, the truth is that your partner is sure to appreciate the effort and feel the need to reciprocate.) While the selection may not be as extensive, there is still plenty to choose from. For example, replace your old boxers with a pair of sheer or see through boxers in smooth silk.

If you are not afraid to try something outside of your comfort zone, it is definitely time to look into latex or leather underwear. Provocative, sexy, sensual, and a bit kinky, they will definitely spice up the bedroom. If you really want to play up your new look, top it off with a leather vest. Bareback briefs are another option that enhance your front and show off your back.

There are also plenty of costumes designed for men that your partner is sure to love. What woman doesn’t get all hot and bothered by a hot fireman or police officer? If you really want to blow her mind, serve her dinner in a naughty waiter costume. Good food and great sex make almost any woman happy.

Can Sexy Lingerie Really Sale Your Marriage?

While even the sexiest lingerie is unlikely to repair a marriage that is already irretrievably broken, it is almost certain to spice up a marriage that is simply stuck in a rut. If your idea of bedroom wear is an old t shirt and a pair of yoga pants, it is time to change things up. No, you do not have to go to bed every night wearing a teddy and fishnet stockings, but your marriage is sure to benefit if you break these pieces of lingerie out a couple of times a week or more. Other nights of the week you can opt for a baby doll or sexy camisole and a pair of matching panties or tiny shorts. There is also plenty of sultry loungewear to choose from that is comfy for you, yet hot enough to catch your partner's attention.

If you are new to the world of sexy lingerie, your husband is almost certain to be speechless the first time you wear it. If you wore lingerie in the past but have let it get pushed further and further back in your drawers through the years, it is time to pull it back out or try something new altogether. If you currently wear lingerie from time to time, it is the perfect time to purchase something new that is outside of your comfort zone to spice things up in the bedroom.

Whether you prefer lingerie that is flat out sultry and sexy or a bit demure, your partner will notice each and every time you wear it in the bedroom. If you are looking for sexy lingerie, Singapore has numerous options to choose from. From individuals pieces to complete costumes, there is something available in every size.